It was only after the divorce that I really learned how much disrespect my husband brought to our marriage. It was then that a friend finally told me that one of our other friends had sex with my husband in my house. My female friend stayed at my house while her soon to be ex-husband was moving his belongings out of her house. Apparently, while I was helping a good friend get through her divorce she was actually helping herself to my husband on the floor in my family room with me upstairs sound asleep. The friend who came forward with this information said she didn’t say anything sooner because she saw that my husband and I were going through some rough times and didn’t want to make things worse.